Conflict is any relationship is useful. It is the catalyst to constructive change, and it is how a relationship evolves. When we ask “What is trying to happen?” we move past “who is doing what to whom”, and we learn about roles, behaviors, dreams and defaults in a relationship.
Relationships have a life cycle, whether an intimate relationship or a team. The life cycle of relationship can be as long as a lifetime or as short as a day. The ending of a marriage, friendship, team or organization is a natural part of the system cycle. Relationship Systems Coaching can assist in the birth, development and constructive completion of relationship systems.
We use a range of tools and exercises to unfold what the relationship needs, how each member plays a role, and how it can move into a direction that serves everyone. Relationship coaching has been very useful as part of various forms of family mediation.
Sessions usually consist of a combination of one-on-one sessions plus sessions with all parties involved.